Funny... just when we feel we've exhausted all the paths to find the answers in life's troubles, we are once again reminded everything happens for a reason!
Good, Bad, or Indifferent, there IS a plan for us. Trusting that isn't always easy, & that's why we call it FAITH!
I try to always find the positive in the negative remarks, grim news, defeating moments, or even the sad reflections that may be in my past. This way when those things seem to happen at the same time, or rear their ugly heads, I don't feel helpless or that my life is jinxed.
BUT....I'm a total LIAR if I tell you it always works! After all, I said "I Try".
So in my experience, if you don't laugh, you'll cry, or hit somebody...just kidding....well, the hitting part! I do have what I call "Ally McBeal" moments. You know, the ones where you punch the person your mad at and your fist goes through their head and your eyes bug out? It makes me feel like I could hit them if it came to that...Everyone needs to feel tough in moments where we feel defeated or beaten down. Keep fighting for Happiness and Hope!
So, when these moments of panic or worry come along, I'm better equipped. I'm a HUGE worrier! There are times I realize there Is no amount of chamomile tea, or let's be honest, wine, that will calm my nerves or mind.
So, as I've gotten older, frontal lobe development no longer an excuse, maturity settling in, and I'm not so embarrassed of my obvious flaws,{I've realized it's better to admit these flaws...},"everyone knows you have them anyway!"...you have to LAUGH!
Now that I'm 8 months from 40, {Not because 40 is "old", just because it seems like you should know yourself by then}, I'm guessing the opportunity to fix the fact that I talk too much & worry too much...well, lets just say, that ship has already sailed.
So, to make life easier...
1st, I surround myself with faithful friends and family. They already know I'm a worry weirdo and talk too much, so this relationship is important...they still like me and love me!
2nd, I try and make fun of myself and most of all, LAUGH at myself! This is a MUST! Don't take life too seriously, because, "So soon old, too late smart."-My Great Grandmother always said that to me, and it SO true!
3rd and Final, I Pin on Pinterest Inspirations, Motivations, and of course awesome decorating, homeschooling, cooking and FUN ideas. This makes me smile. Smiling is life's natural remedy to all that ails you and best of all, it's contagious!
So here are two Pins I had to share. Maybe they will make you laugh & inspired too!
I really want this shirt...seriously, It was made for me!
This...well, I need this on the mirror in my bathroom. This way I would see it every morning when I start a new day. Then, each night I would be reminded again, when maybe the day was less than pleasant, or maybe the day proved to be much better than the day before. Because, thus is SO TRUE!!!!
I hope I've helped motivate you to laugh at yourself, and most of all realize that each day is a new start, even if it takes a lot of days to get the one you were looking for..."just keep swimming" -Finding Nemo.
Follow me on Pinterest for more Inspirations and Motivations to make tomorrow what you want it to be.
Happy Monday~